Perfectionism is one of those wonderful character traits that we all aspire to!!

Perfectionism is often defined as the need to be or appear perfect,or even to believe that it’s possible to achieve perfection!We all have this amazing fantasy about life that this is how a thing should work and this is my plan.It should be go as my plan.If that does not happen we give up. We all want to be perfect in some ways or the other.We want ourselves to be perfect.There is this image in our head about everything; perfect year,perfect person,perfect job,perfect career,perfect relationship,perfect life.But my dear friends ,it’s just an illusion.Perfection is a myth.Nothing is perfect or ever be.Leave perfectionism behind and see how quickly you grow.We are always learning and growing.Everything is a work in progress.Perfection is unreal expectation that can become toxic to our mindset.

We all are perfectly imperfect and that is perfectly all right.Our society has made very weird.Very weird kinds of norms to look perfect and great.We listen too much what people say and listen to ourselves too little.One don’t need to look perfect just because the other person want us to.If your soul is perfect from within,This is all what you want and need to be.

What makes us perfect is When we make someone smile!

When try to do something good for people around us

When we feels someone’s pain

When we are beautiful from within

When we are grateful

When we don’t quit

When we keep going

When we keep experimenting

When we don’t lose hope!!

From One of my favourites!

“I do not want to have you to fill the empty parts of me

I want to be full on my own

I want to be so complete

I could light a whole city and then

I want to have you ,the two of us Combined could set it on fire”

-By Rupi Kaur

Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.

— Oscar Wilde.

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